Poly, open, and ENM friendly
therapy in Phoenix.
You shouldn't have to teach your therapist about your relationship structure before you can talk about what's actually going on in it. At Oak & Wave Counseling, Heather Wheeler, LCSW provides knowledgeable, non-judgmental therapy for people in polyamorous, open, relationship-anarchist, and ethically non-monogamous relationships across Phoenix and Arizona.
Care here is sex-positive. Whether you're opening up an existing partnership, navigating a difficult compersion or jealousy moment, working through a metamour conflict, or rebuilding trust after a rupture — you'll be met with curiosity, not assumptions.
Common reasons people reach out
- Opening up a previously monogamous relationship
- Designing relationship agreements that fit you
- Jealousy, compersion & emotional regulation
- Metamour & multi-partner dynamics
- Hierarchy, anchor partners & relationship anarchy
- Communication, consent & negotiation skills
- Rebuilding trust after breaches or transitions
- Coming out as poly/ENM to family or community
- Sex-positive support
- Solo poly, parallel poly & kitchen-table poly
For individuals, couples & beyond
Sessions are available for individuals, dyads, and — when clinically appropriate — multi-partner configurations. In-person in midtown Phoenix and secure telehealth anywhere in Arizona, including Scottsdale, Tempe, Mesa, Chandler, and Glendale.